Who's in control now?

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

I would have killed him. That creep wanted to rape me and I swear I would've killed him. I know that's not something a person should admit, not something someone should be proud of, but any man who thinks he can just take what he wants... Richard Fields, Michael Cambias - they deserved what happened to them. And that skeevy guy in my room earlier - he deserves much worse than he got. Just thinking about it... Make me so angry! Men don't have the right to take away a woman's privacy, her body, her choice - but any man that tries to do that to me... he won't have much say when I'm done with him. 

Comments

[CindyK]

Kendall,

Not all women are able to do what you did...bravo to all victims of violence everywhere and also to you for stopping the slimeball.

[HalfPint]

Kendall,

One of the things that I love about both Zach and yourself is the fact that you both think of each other first. Despite what that creep tried to do you're making sure Zach has some peace from any storm clouds...at least for tonight. Zach does need to know...he would want to know. He also knows that that guy never had a chance against you. Way to go Kendall!

[April]

Kendall
you are right no man has a right to take something from a woman when she said no. I am sorry but you should not have thanked Aiden he didn't help you. You did that all by yourself.

[Kristen]

Kendall..

I believe your response is realistic and right on. Your mother and sister were violated and that is something they will live with for the rest of their lives.

I can only imagine the fear you had when the creep tried to do the same to you. You are entitled to your feeings - especially given the history in your family and the issues you've struggled with.

I hope you talk to Zach and let him inside - talk to him about what happened and how it made you feel.

Kristen

[Dania]

Kendall, you did good. Really,really good. And your rage at that **** is perfectly normal. Nothing wrong with it, and it wouldn't have hurt my feelings a bit if you'd done a lot MORE damage to him. Richard Pryor said of rape: "It's some vile s**t, to take somebody's humanity like that". And that's exactly what it is. I'm a survivor myself and as far as I'm concerned, anything goes.

[Lara]

Kendall, You were great! I do hope you tell Zach and Erica what happended. You need to talk with someone. Kendall you and you family have been through so much this past year, I was so proud of you for kicking ass. You and you alone saved yourself. Zach once said that you are a very strong person, he is right.

[MK]

Good for you Kendall....
I'm so proud of you! That guy got what he deserved and more! I only wish that Zach would have been there! Please forget about this book tour, and get back to that beautiful family of yours, where you belong!

[Becky, Brandon, MS]

Honey, if a man tries to rape a woman he deserves anything he gets...even death. I figure it's them or me.....and I would rather it be them....enuff said.

[MissUnderstood]

Kendall,

You did it! That creep will be paying for messing with the wrong woman for a long, long time.

I too wonder what next week will bring...because I want to see Zen together finding that peace you talked about. No couple is more deserving after the year you've had.

[LuvMyZen]

Kendall,

While I am glad that Aidan was there to "finish" off that sleeze that tried to hurt you...I see him as more of a "fair weather" friend. The only people I trust completely to have your back are Zach, Erica, Bianca, Spike and Ian.