Consent

Monday, September 24, 2007

It's  a huge step, but Zach is right... Spike having the cochlear implant surgery has nothing to do with Greenlee. It's about our son. His options. His quality of life. In a weird way, these past few weeks were as though I was the deaf one. I didn't want to listen to professional opinions, educated suggestions - alternatives. But meeting Jason - seeing how normal life is for him despite the way he hears... it gave me hope for Spike. I'm ready to move forward with the surgery. I hate that my son will be in the hospital again, but if it enables him to hear the words "I love you" from me or allows him to communicate with his little brother in a few months then it's worth it. I will never forgive Greenlee for what she did to Spike, but I won't let her stop me from doing the right thing for my son.

Comments

[Becky, Brandon,MS]

This is a huge step for you,Kendall...one you will not regret. I am so very proud of you. In the meantime, we can always pray for a miracle...give my love to Dr. Joe...he's soooooo hot!

[Tigereye]

Kendall,

You've been through so much and so have your boys. You just needed some time to process everything. That doesn't make you wrong or a bad person, just someone who needed time. There's no doubt in anyone's mind that you love your children and want the best for them. You're a good mom, never doubt that.

[CindyK]

Kendall,

Checking into the implants is the right thing to do. I really think the surgery is going to be harder on you and Zach than on Spike. The sooner it is done the sooner Spike will heal and the sooner he'll hear your beautiful voice singing to him again.

You also might want to run this past Ryan...because I really don't want to listen to him blaming you for making decisions behind his back...IJS.

[MrsK]

Kendall,

I'm so glad that you changed your mind and are considering the implants. You've got one of the best specialists in the country, plus Joe Martin, taking care of Spike.

Even with the implants and Spike being to hear sounds again, it will never erase what Greenlee did nor do I think she deserves forgiveness. Concentrate on Spike for now...and then I hope you decimate the witch.

[HalfPint]

Kendall,

I knew that it was just a matter of time before you accepted Spike's deafness and now, thanks to Zach and Erica and especially Jason, you know there are possibilities. Good for you...and better yet for Spike.

I'm not sure what it is about Ryaninterruptis...but today his timing couldn't have been better.

[lovemylhasa]

Amen, Halleluiah, and Thank Goodness that you have seen the light! I love it how you and Zach can discuss issues calmly and make decisions together. It was good that you and Zach made the right decision regarding Spike, without any interference from outside forces. I loved Jason and hope he comes back soon.

As far as Greenlee, I hope your plan is clever and original, and gets back at her in way that will not make some feel sorry for her. What Greenlee did is unforgivable and she should never be your friend again.

PV is lucky to have such a super couple as you and Zach.

[Brainerd]

Kendall,

No matter what life has thrown your way...you have always put your family first. As the great mom you are and with a little shove from Jason, I knew you would come around in your own time.

Spike deserves the best options possible. Not having the surgery because of Greenlee is the same as letting her keep some sort of power over you. That doesn't mean you should forgive or that you can't get revenge. I want to see you take Meanlee down but mostly I want to see you and Zach living a happy life with Spike and Ian...that's the best revenge.

[Onamia]

Kendall,

Great news for Spike and for you and your family! I'm so glad you took the time to listen to Jason and Zach. Children are really more resilient than we given them credit for. Spike will be up and around in no time...and soon Ian will be home where he belongs. I also hope Greenlee rots in hell. Poor Aidan. I was actually glad to see Ryan today...which is saying a lot.

Loved Adam as referee to Tad and Krystal...especially his comment, "no makeup sex on my property". Adam...just say no when it comes to all things Carey.

[ranger1]

You and Zach are such incredible soulmates. Take that handsome hunk home and ......well, you know! I am so happy you are ready to move forward. Now, when can we bring Ian home?

[Barb NY]

Kendall..I think you've made the right decision.Spike will be able to have a normal life with the cochlear implant. He's young enough to adjust completely. I don't think Greenlee has anything to do with Spike having the surgery. You are doing what is best for your son and it has nothing to do with Greenlee. A decision like this is not easy for any mother to make. You've given it a lot of thought and made the right choice.

[Jules]

I'm so glad to hear it, Kendall. It's time for you to come to terms with Spike's deafness, and Jason is the best example of how terrific a life Spike can have. Greenlee cannot win because you have Spike, Ian, and most importantly, Zach. You've matured and grown, and you're loved and loving, all things which Greenlee doesn't know from. It's time for you and the Slater family to move on, and next is getting some revenge on Greenlee. Just don't let it consume you and pull you away from your family.

[JUDI]

Kendall, I am so proud of you. You just needed to see proof of what kind of life Spike can have. With all the love you and Zach have to give him, he is a lucky little man !! I can't wait till he can hear the "I LOVE YOU'S" that you will be saying !!

[Sarah]

Kendall,

I'm so proud of you. It took you a little while to reach this point and that's ok. After initially wanting to run after finding out Jason was deaf, you stayed and listened and learned about that special young man. Spike can be like him, a little boy who plays sports and excels at school and likes girls (well perhaps eventually).

Spike having another surgery is scary and not ideal, but you and Zach will be there when he goes into the OR and will be waiting when he comes out. Your love will get him through this. He will be able to hear you say "I love you" and he and his little brother will love playing together and giving you and Zach fits. And you and Zach will love every minute of it.

[Bonnie (TOYK)]

Kendall, you are right. It’s a huge step for you and Spike and it is only the beginning. I’m glad you’ve taken this very first step. Meeting Jason, and by the way, don’t you find him one amazing young gentleman who has accomplished quite a bit and yet, he is so different but not so different in an exceptional way. Spike can be whoever he wants to be, if you give him the opportunity…and getting cochlear implants for him is the opportunity. You are doing the right thing for your son. My best wishes to you and your family. Take care.