Tomorrow's a new day
Thursday, August 9, 2007
I just need an answer. Something to grab onto so we can all figure out what to do next. And mainly... I need to know for sure Spike's deafness is only temporary. I mean... it has to be, right? Just a side effect that will wear off or something. God, it just has to be that. It just has to be. I need to know as soon as possible - and if Zach weren't here... My husband is brilliant: If we can't bring Spike to the equipment then bring the equipment to Spike. I love Zach more and more every day and if he weren't here... I don't even know if I'd be standing. I just have to keep telling myself that tomorrow will tell us everything we need to know... tomorrow will be a better day.






Kendall,
When tragedy such as this is placed on your shoulders you need to remember that your family and God will get you through it. Life is always best look at it as One day at a time. Good luck and God bless you and your beautiful boys.
Posted by: Kim | August 09, 2007 at 05:43 PM
Kendall,
Certainly Spike's deafness being temporary would be the best outcome at this point. However, there is also a possibility it could be permanent. Whatever the outcome I choose to believe in the best and I know that all four of you will do whatever is best for Spike.
Zach's purchasing the equipment to diagnose Spike was no surprise to me...Zach's love for his family is what drives him. He really is one in a million...and I would also like to see that statue in honor of Zach in the lobby at PVH.
Posted by: CindyK | August 09, 2007 at 06:09 PM
Kendall,
Very understandable why you would be anxious to get all the information on Spike's condition. I am hoping for good news and also enjoyed the scenes where Annie was able to let you see that everyone wants the same thing when it comes to Spike. The sooner a diagnosis is made the sooner Spike can begin treatment. Loved the twinkle in Zach's eyes when he said the "mountain is coming to Mohamed". There is nothing this man wouldn't do for his family...and that very much includes Spike.
Posted by: MrsK | August 09, 2007 at 06:16 PM
Kendall,
I continue to think positive thoughts for both of your children...very cute comment from Zach about Ian sleeping like a baby. All three of you are very lucky to have Zach in your lives...of course he feels the same way...which is why there was no way he was going to take no for an answer when he purchased the special equipment Spike needed.
Together you will conquer whatever uncertainties there are ahead for your family and children.
Posted by: HalfPint | August 09, 2007 at 06:22 PM
Kendall..Tomorrow will be a better day.Hopefully the doctors will find out exactly what is wrong with Spike and determine how to treat him. Zach is one in a million, but you know that. Your boys are tough fighters and both will win their fights and pull through.
Posted by: Barb NY | August 09, 2007 at 06:27 PM
Daddy Zach did come through today, didn't he? There's nothing he wouldn't do for you or Spike. I wish you'd leave Spike for just a few minutes to go see Ian, only because he needs to see and feel you, too, but I understand that you're going through such an awful time right now. Whatever the diagnosis is, you and Zach, and Ryan and Annie, can handle it. Spike will be OK and he'll lead a healthy life regardless of the test results as long as he has his family's love and support.
Posted by: Jules | August 09, 2007 at 06:50 PM
Kendall, you are right. Zach is brilliant! Please remember he needs your love and support right now too. He loves you and those boys beyond comprehension. After things have calmed down somewhat, I think you should give him a "reward". We need to see Ian more. Are you afraid to bond with him and then lose him? He is a Slater! That boy is stronger than any 10 kids around PV.
Posted by: ranger1 | August 09, 2007 at 07:16 PM
You're right, tomorrow is a new day. But, even better than that - there is ANOTHER NEw DAY after that - and after that.
Each new day brings more joy and more hope. Everyday that Ian survives brings him closer to coming home. Spike will be alright too; even though he may not hear, he will still be able to love you and understand you.
You're very lucky to have Zach - he needs you just as much. Please, get your rest and thens spend some time with Zach and Ian - Zach has been holding that side of the hospital alone for too long. He needs you.
We all love you, Mrs. Slater - hang in there and keep praying. God will deliver.
Posted by: Traci | August 09, 2007 at 07:50 PM
wow watching you play such a great mother inspires me to want to be like you...im a single 19 year old mother trying to raise my 10 month old son...unlike spike my son has no father figure in his life but watching you makes me see how great you are an only makes me try harder to be a mommy an a daddy...so i just wanted to let you know that you are an amazing person that a lot of young girls look up too.....
Posted by: ChRiStiNA | August 10, 2007 at 03:34 AM
Kendall, Zach loves you and Spike completely. Spike is his son. He doesn't consider him as his son, he is his son. He will do anything for him. If it means buying equipment for the hospital, he'll do it. Zach is the greatest. Never let go of him but remember that he may need to hang on to you too.
I hope tomorrow brings better news, but if it doesn't hold onto each other cause together you will get thru this.
Posted by: Anne | August 10, 2007 at 03:36 AM
Watch over your boys and love them through whatever is happening. Then when they are well punch Greenlee right in the face.
Posted by: Debby | August 10, 2007 at 04:21 AM
Kendall:
The worst thing right now is not knowing.
I hope with all my heart Spike's deafness is temporary;but if is isn't,that is absolutely not the worst thing that can happen.Yes.It will rock your world.Yes.It will change a few things.
He's still Spike,though. He's still your little boy.
..and he's alive and healthy.....you can handle whatever happens!
Posted by: Becky, Brandon,MS | August 10, 2007 at 05:34 AM
Kendall,
With the equipment being brought to PVH thanks to your brilliant husband...luv that guy...you will have more information and with Dr. Norton can decide on treatment. Keep that positive attitude...but should the news not be as good as expected...you are a strong woman who can deal with it because Spike is counting on you...and I know you will not fail him or Ian.
Posted by: Brainerd | August 10, 2007 at 09:05 AM