Her heart will go on

Monday, July 9, 2007

Greenlee’s crushed. Did you see her? It’s one thing to have everyone tell you that you’re wrong. “Ryan loves Annie.” “Ryan’s over you.” But that moment – the one where you say it to yourself… it is so hard. I remember when it dawned on me that Ryan moved on – the tears, feeling shattered – and some of the things I did to get back at them for being happy… I just want to be there for Greenlee, but she refused me. How can you make heartbreak go away and get to the other side? How do you get over love painlessly?

Comments

[cmn]

Kendall, Forget Greenlee, Forget Ryan, Forget Annie! Let them deal with their problems on their own. They don't appreciate anything you do for them and, as you said, no matter what you do they will always think it is your fault if things go wrong.
It is high time for Greenlee to start acting like a grownup and quit feeling sorry for herself. Her poor, pitiful me act is just so old and extremely annoying.

[Sharon]

Kendall, I just hope you really know what you're doing, but I fear for what's coming. Greenlee doesn't matter. She doesn't deserve all of your concern here..I'm sorry she just doesn't. Get over it & pay more attention to Zach & Spike because they don't deserve
all this needless obsession
on Greenlee. Girl, you are riding for a big fall.

[Tigereye]

Kendall,

I and a lot of people love you for your big heart. But Greenlee, Ryan and Annie are not your responsibility. This entire mess was brought on by their own actions. And how do you help someone get over a brokenheart. You don't. You let time do its work. And can I say that Ryan once again reinforces my belief that he is the biggest jerk on the face of this planet? He set this whole thing in motion, yet he blames you. Who invited Greenlee into the family and insisted everyone accept her? Ryan. Now it's inconvenient to him and he expects you to clean up his mess. Tell Ryan to finally act like a REAL MAN and own up to his mistakes and clean up his own garbage. I'm so happy you found a REAL MAN...ZACH!

[Barb NY]

Kendall..I know you have a big heart and are great to those you love. However, I don't think Greenlee deserves any compassion from you. She's a horrible person and is getting just what she deserves for acting the way she has. Why do you feel so sorry for her? Is it because She wanted to send your husband to jail or is it because she wanted to sue you for custody of YOUR son? Remember she is the one who left Pine Valley and her husband. If she really loved him she would have stayed and tried to work things out. Now it's too late. He's moved on and she can't blame anyone but herself. Don't feel sorry for her. You should worry now about where Greenlee will strike next because that's what she does when she doesn't get her way. Just hope that you and those you love aren't her next victims!

[CindyK]

Kendall,

Before I met my husband I did kiss a few frogs, and the best way to get over someone is to figure out what went wrong and try not to repeat past mistakes. Volunteering and helping others is also a nice way to focus on others...and it also is a ego booster.

What is the deal with Ryan basically calling you controlling because you are trying to get Greenlee and Annie to tone it down?

While I don't believe you are asking them to be best buds...I would expect them both to act in a civil and a professional manner while at Fusion.

[MrsK]

Kendall,

I remember well the drastic measures you went to when you tried to "win" Ryan back from Greenlee. Considering how easily Ryan was swayed by Greenlee's "charm", I never saw him as some sort of "prize". No matter...it's all "water under the bridge" and in the past, because when you and Zach found each other...you both won the lottery.

[HalfPint]

Kendall,

You may have gone to some extremes back in the day...but Greenlee and Ryan gave as good as they got, if not more.

By the looks of scenes for tomorrow...it appears Greenlee has gotten over Ryan in record time and that Josh is going to be the rebound guy. That is really a bad idea because it's just too soon. Greenlee needs to mend her heart by concentrating on doing some of her favorite things...and reconnecting with Jack and her mother, Mary.

[Anonymous]

Kendall,

As someone who remembers well the rebellious Kendall who showed up in Pine Valley and almost burned down the Pine Cone, I know you have seen your share of heartbreak. I have also had the privilege of watching you grow and mature into one of the most forgiving and kindhearted people on the planet.

The bulk of the problem at least as I see it, is that neither Ryan nor Greenlee have changed all that much...and by Ryan's comments today...he still doesn't get you at all.

[Lisa]

It is terrible when you realize the person you love so much loves someone else. I have been in love with one guy for over 25 years. I met him when I was 15 years old and felt like lightening struck me. Well 3 years ago he came back into my life. He had just separated from his wife and I was trying to be a friend to him. Well, another women he knew came in and captured his heart. He got a divorce and he married her on Memorial Day. I thought that he knew how I felt and I gave him my heart again and he married someone else. It is hard for me to think of him with another women (wife) but I keep on believing that if our love is the real thing, He will come back to me someday. As for now, I just keep telling myself that I can love him and be his friend. He know how I feel about him and he realizes that we have a special connection, but he is now married to someone else. The only good thing about us is that I do not have to see him and his new wife. We live about two different regions of the country. I will just lick my wounds and let time heal my heart.

[Dawn]

Kendall, the heart will go on, but if you don't have a heart to begin with what do you do.

It sickens me the way you keep trying to help the toxic waste that surrounds you.

Greenlee is a useless piece of trash. She deserves what she gets...

Ryan,IMHO, is no prize to anyone. Today, he was once again blaming you & treating you like dirt.

He started this train wreck, then bailed, and left you to clean up his mess. Now, that worthless SOB is critizing you for trying to fix his mess. Screw him.

Kendall do yourself a favor, kick the toxic waste to the curb. Rylee sucks the life out of the room, and they are sucking the life out of you.

Free Kendall from Rylee...

[Jules]

Kendall, sweetie, leave Greenlee, Annie and Ryan alone!! Zach said it best about you: When you love, you give everything. You don't know how to love part-way. It's a terrific trait, but please move on to other things! Work on Fusion Green. Decorate your new home. Spend more time with Zach and Spike. But leave the matchmaking/Dr. Phil exercises to the experts. I don't care about Greenlee, and when she says she loves you, I don't believe her. Ryan and Annie don't appreciate all you've done for them--as usual. The problems with all these folks were started by Greenlee, and then Ryan, insisting that she be included in your lives, and now Ryan wants out! I can't take this anymore, Kendall, and you shouldn't have to.

[Femina]

Kendall,

Trying to heal Greenlee's broken heart is not your job. As you mentioned so correctly, it is Ryan that shattered her life, not you. Before Greenlee shattered YOUR heart, she was a vortex of need. She needed Ryan; she needed Ryan's baby; she needed to be loved. Now that she's back, she's the same needy, demanding child. When does it end?

I'm not a "turn the other cheek" kind of girl. I believe that sometimes, you really get what you deserve. You deserve Zach, Spike, and the little one on the way. You've paid your dues, endured your share of lumps and bruises, and earned the right to be happy. Greenlee needs to realize that she didn't lose anything, she voluntarily abandoned Spike and Ryan. You can't be there for Greenlee no matter how much you may want to. Why? Because she will suck you into that dark vortex of need that follows her wherever she goes. And sometimes Kendall, you just have to cut your losses.