Who spiked the punch?

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Am I the only one not drinking the spiked punch?? Now Ryan’s decided to give Spike mommy, mommy, mommy and me time? This isn’t a “who’s the mama” contest. And it’s certainly not some survivor island challenge between Ryan’s exes. My son is MY son. I’m not sharing him with Greenlee. And as selfish as those words sound individually – it’s not selfish AT ALL. You people are with me, right? Ryan perpetually suffers from “I-don’t-want-to-be-the-bad-guy” syndrome or something. Newsflash: Greenlee’s that “guy.” She tried to have my husband and Ryan arrested, and is suing for custody of a child that isn’t hers. Deep end? Here she comes – ready to fall right off you. I’m not crazy, I’m not stupid and I am not sharing my son.

Comments

[Jules]

I'm with you, Kendall. I couldn't understand Ryan's point of view today, and I didn't like how he talked to you, either. As long as you keep focused on Spike's wellbeing, and how insane Greenlee sounds because you dared to live your life after she left, falling in love with Zach and having a baby with him, you'll be fine. Don't lose perspective, and don't give in to bullying peer pressure from Ryan. You are Spike's mother, and that little fact should never, ever be ignored or forgotten.

[Traci]

Amen!!!

[Barb NY]

Kendall..You do not sound selfish at all. Spike is YOUR son. Greenlee has no right to him. He's a real child, not a toy to be passed around from mommy to mommy. You stick to your guns and do not let Greenlee near your son. Who does Ryan think he is deciding that Greenlee should be Spike's step mother? Did he forget about Annie so quickly? He has some nerve comparing Greenlee to Zach. Zach has been there for Spike since before he was born. He's protected him, loved him, cared for him when he was sick and done everything for him. He is also legally his step father. Also, Ryan is treating you very disrespectfully, telling you to shut up and sit down. What's with him? I don't think he'd treat you like that if Zach were there! You should tell both Ryan and Greenlee that you aren't their doormat. Just don't trust Greenlee with Spike. I don't think she really cares about him. I think she wants Ryan and thinks that Spike wii lead her to Ryan.

[CindyK]

Kendall,

For someone who doesn't want to look like the "bad guy" Ryan sure came off as one...who tells the mother of their child to they can "shut up or leave"? His attitude of my way or the highway, while typical Ryan had no place at Fusion.

Any discussion regarding Spike should be a joint decision...and should of been discussed with you in a civil manner prior to Ryan event talking to Greenlee. It was very disrespectful of you in particular and even Annie. Apparently he has already forgotten about the wife he recently married...at least until you reminded him that Spike already had a step-mom.

As pathetic as Greenlee is Ryan was just unbelieveable! I have no words for the animosity I feel for both of these characters!

[MrsK]

Kendall,

As Spike's biological father, I have granted Ryan a certain amount respect. However, all that changed today. Ryan's overbearing attitude when he told you "to shut up or get out" is unacceptable. Quite frankly, he comes across as a bully. I shudder to think of what is going to happen when you have any type of disagreement in how Spike should be raised...because Ryan is already making decisions regarding Spike without consulting you...those decisions could have repercussions for years to come.

There is no way Greenlee could be considered any type of parent. When the going got tough...she abandoned him. This week she wants him...what about next week...or the week after that? Parents don't get to come in and out of children's lives. Spike needs stability and love and security...which is just what you and Zach provide on a daily basis have even before he was born...not from someone who wants to be "mommy of the week". Hold your ground.

Kendall,

Greenlee has no right to your son. But something tells me she may have a crooked lawyer and\or judge to listen to her case. Don't take your eyes off her and don't trust her. Zach was right, you should have just ignored her, but it's hard when you work together and she is talking about taking your son away. If you have to, get a restraining order against her and Ryan !! One father, one mother, one step father, one step mother!! How hard is that for Ryan to understand. And when he told you to shut up today, you should have slapped him silly !!!

[Tigereye]

Kendall you are NOT selfish! The only reason that JACKASS Ryan is a part of Spike's life is because YOU allow him to be! Ryan just shows his true colors again. It's all about control with that jerk. Ordering YOU, Spike's mother around, telling YOU who can be part of Spike's family. And Greenlee, that piece of Toxic Waste, smirking her way through it. I cannot express how angry and disgusted I am by those two parasites. I say sue for full custody and kick BOTH Ryan and Greenlee out of your and Spike's lives! You have the perfect daddy for Spike in Zach!

Oh, and nice to see that Ryan doesn't give a damn about Annie as a stepmom. Not that I'm a fan of that Stepford Wife, but he did marry her. Ryan's just as big of a selfish jerk as Greenlee!

[Cassie]

Kendall dear stick to your guns. Ryan is nuts! Give ANY rights to his former nut-job of a wife! Not in this lifetime. You'd better let your husband in on what Ryan wants to do. Time to find the best lawyer Zach's money can buy and resind Ryan's parental rights. Him tell you that the only reason you have Spike is because of Greenlee - the reason you have Spike is because of Zach and ONLY because of Zach who protected you and Spike in the hospital. Ryan was willing to sacrifice Spike. Zach is his FATHER - Ryan was just the donor!
Also, time for you to NOT let your guard down with that "so called" friend. She's evil to the core - DO NOT TRUST HER - not even regarding Fusion! She's out to do you, Spike and Zach more harm than you realize. I think you'd better reconsider Zach's offer of a home office - sounds like a plan! Stay strong and KEEP YOUR SON AWAY FROM HER!

[Gigilyn]

Stick to your guns Kendall. Remain strong against both Ryan and Greenlee. Ryan has been ready to get rid of Spike since the day he was conceived. You need to have Zach tell you everything about the time you were in the coma. Ryan was ready to kill Spike then so why not give him away now after all he has a daughter. Ryan has never changed. He is the wolf in human form.
You and Zach need to get given full cusody of Spike.

Ryan does not suffer from wanting to be a nice guy he suffers from being a Neanderthal to his Neapolism. Think about it. He must rule the world and be in charge of every woman plus his fixation of his chest. What true man tells any woman to "shut up" but especially the mother of the child in question as if you have no say in your child's life. If you were not in the room he would have given your child away.
Why is the Black Out more important than Zach saving you and Spike from the island, helping you realize that you could be a mother and did want to be a mother to your child, marrying you to protect you and carry out your wishes? If it had not been for Zach there would have been NO Spike.
As for Ryan saying he allowed Zach to be Spike's stepfather---When was that his choice? You were married to Zach when you conceived (were inseminated) and when Spike was born. The only one that needed permission to be in Spike's life is Ryan. I am so sorry you ever gave him permission to have any control of you or Spike's life. Ryan thinks he can control you even though you are married (to a very manly man).
You and Annie need to get your children away from the freak that "Must Rule the World." Afterall it is a Lavery way of life. Ryan and Jon are their father in most ways.

[i agree]

i agree. when you so selflessly offered to give your unborn child to her she turned you down and the offer was off the table. Spike is your child and you should have to share him with no selfish witch.

[Tgal in IN]

You said it, Kendall! Greenlee has no rights and no ties to your son! Any possible right she had evaporated the minute she walked out on you in '05. She doesn't want Spike, she wants "something", and this is the best way to get back at you and Zach. It galls me that she is treating you the way she is!

Also, why is Ryan being such a pansy lately? First he forgot about his new wife being Spike's step-mom, then he has the nerve to suggest Greenlee be part of Spike's life? What??? Ryan treats you like you aren't important in your son's life and that you don't have any say. Obviously he has forgotten who really loves and cares for Spike, and that is you and Zach. Don't let him treat you the way he did yesterday - he was verbally abusive, demanding and disrespectful of you. I couldn't believe it! Keep that Kendall "fire" and stand up for yourself and protect your son. You and Zach - you'll protect Spike because you're his real family. You're the only ones who can because of the love you have for him. Stay strong!

[Sam]

Kendall, I totally agree with you!! Your son is yours and yours alone!!! Greenlee wasn't on the scene when you gave birth to him. And she bolted when she had found out that it wasn't her eggs used to bring Spike into being!!! And now she's coming back claiming your baby, no way... At first you didn't want to be mother, but after some serious soul searching you're finally came around. Watching you, Zach and even Ryan that precious boy is loved... And besides Spike has two mommys and two daddys, he doesn't need a Greenlee. I bet if Bianca was still in town she would stand by you on this! And even Babe & Annie understands where you're coming from. What's Ryan thinking but asking you to let Greenlee into Spike's life. She is too self-absorbed and self-centered to raise a child!

[sweetpeanut]

Kendall, you are not nuts. I am tired of Greenlee whining. Yes, I agree....she got hurt. I feel for her. It's been a year. She needs to either get past it all or leave again. Enough with the whining. I'd be wearing some good earplugs at work if I were you.......

[admommy]

Im with you all the way Kendall. She left town and turned her back on you, Ryan and Spike. She has no rights to your child and Ryan as no real reason to make you allow Greenlee to be in YOUR son's life.

[SandyR]

Kendall:

Stand your ground! Ryan is so far out of line it isn't funny. What's wrong with him? I hate the way he orders you around. You're the mother of his son and should respect you!!

Greenlee has no rights to Spike...she left town and didn't look back, and for Ryan to ask for her to be a step-mother is ridiculous!

I'd tell them both to take a hike and say "see you in court."